So I am pledging a fraternity right now. I keep having thoughts about dropping, like yeah its hurting my grades a bit, hindering work hours and keeping me from doing hobbies, but the main thing is I feel like I dont fit in with these guys.

I like a lot of the brothers, and some of them are keeping me from fully dropping, but I just dont have the love for this fraternity quite honestly.. I rushed last minute and didnt give a couple of other houses a shot.

I want to drop because I just dont really fit in with my pledge class. They are nice guys but we just dont click. What I say basically goes unnoticed and I never really want to hang out with them because I dont really have fun with them..I like ALOT of the brothers but what is the point if I dont fit in with my own pledge class? I am also scared that because of this im going to be dropped next meeting so then I wont be able to rush another house because I "got dropped"..so basically I want to drop before I get dropped.

My biggest worry though is being alone..I feel like if I drop ill be friendless(I have no abudance mentality) and I dont want to let down the brothers that I do like down. Idk should I just keep going through it with the chance I could be dropped soon or should I drop now and try another house spring?