I've had a bout of oneitis and had numerous dates with other people after by oneitis. My oneitis wanted big things and I'm just a simple human being tryibg to rake it in to build an empire.

So she used to spend her dad's money. She spent 4 years doing pyschology and now is doing law which is another 3/4 years. She'll enter the workforce when she's 26/27. The point is she wanted to live a lavish lifestyle and I didn't want to provide it. I've worked day and night to get to where I am (investment bank) and I don't spend money on stupid materialism.

The other girls I've dated after were: 1. Suicidal 2. Compulsive liar 3. Boring

I live a very busy schedule and I'm doing a startup, external qualification and work. I have tinder and have been unmatched due to my slow responses (1 day max). I feel this also due to the case that I can't be asked anymore. It's a waste of my time.

Return to effort is too low. I have to dress up, put a fake face on and pretend I'm enjoying the time with them. I'm starting to think "what can you offer me..."

Has anybody felt like they can't be asked?