I'm 21, she's 25, fucked on the fourth date after deeply connecting mentally every date, and she's pretty RP from what I can tell in the subtleties: Southern background, very obedient despite small SMV gap in my favor, hates PDA, self-aware of her image, doesn't get drunk, works out and successful in job, has the right ideas on motherhood (not too solipsistic, still able to connect).

When we fucked, I didn't care to put a condom and just slid it in...and now my mind's spinning that despite the mental connection and high ASD, I can't help but think she could've went raw with others.

If all goes well, I'll spin her at least 3 months before committing, she hasn't even brought it up yet. So for now, how should I bring up condoms without her feeling offended like she's a slut and doesn't know who's dipping in there?