Quick question

[deleted] · 2017-04-16T03:28:27+00:00

tldr; sounds like a routine shit test, I wouldn't cut loose a gf over it, but I would a plate.

Current girlfriend says I need to give her reassurance

Sounds reasonable for a gf

that I can prioritize myself AND her at the same time

A little BP, but what do you expect with a gf?

And that I am responsible for her insecurities.

No, she is responsible for her emotions. If she cant deal with them its her problem. She can cut you loose, ignore it or fix herself. FYI this is telling you that you are in the position of power (edit:or that she isnt into you and is making a power play/ultimatum because she thinks youre BP).

Also she says I need to be less selfish and consider her more.

Shit test.

Are relationships like this?

Is every snowflake unique?

Listen mr snowflake, you set boundaries and cut her loose if she violates them. Seems okay so far from what you've communicated so far.

Women give shit tests, that is like a RP axiom and you will always get shit tests from the women you are (and aren't) fucking.

Are relationships like this when you're chad? Probably not. She'd be all over herself ignoring her freinds, flaking out on other appointments because you made a booty call.

But lets be honest, you wouldnt be here is you were chad, so yes, your relationship is just like every other relationship.

Next? If she was a plate, yes.

But shes a gf, and thats a box you put yourself inside.

Cut her loose if she doesn't add enough value to offset the annoyances. Otherwise, read the sidebar and become a Shit Test JediⓇ.

modashi · 2017-04-16T01:21:16+00:00

Next. These requests would only even be considerable if she could do the same for herself.

Basically: "I'm being an entitled, selfish bitch, but you need to be less selfish."

She's literally asking you to be a beta.

Also, you're responsible for her insecurities? Big red flag as a human being in general.

Title	Quick question
Author	MoreTheBetterx3
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	April 15, 2017 11:51 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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