I get the general gist of a soft next and I understand completely removing all attention/affection from your plate/FWB/LTR. When they message you or Snapchat you, you're meant to ignore it. Easy. But do you just not open them so they can't see a "seen" stamp or an opened Snapchat? I'm going to assume you can continue all normal activity on Facebook (correct me if I'm wrong) like tagging your mates in dank steamy memes etc or would this create drama (which is what you want to avoid when doing a soft next as I have read) because obviously if your plate/FWB/LTR notices your online activity, she will know your ignoring her.

1) Do you open Snapchat and messages that will leave some kind of "seen" stamp or do you leave all these things unopened until the soft next is over? 2) Do you just continue normal social media activity during a soft next and let her wonder why you're ignoring her?