Yeah another oneitis post, but hopefully i can offer something new.

A lot of the red pill for me comes when reality confirms what ive learned, or when i see the red pill reflected back at me. Its a beautiful moment and thats when it really sinks in and the cognitive dissonance resolves itself.

I still struggle with rationalizing away oneitis and still have cognitive dissonance bad. Recently spent a few days with one of hottest girls ive ever built attraction with and had good results, and immediately had crushing oneitis hit me hard. The problem is when i look to society for confitmation and see loads of monogamous LTR relationships, and plenty of them work, im confused. Some of my friends have oneitis with their girls, but effectively turned it into a LTR and are happily married for now. I understand that oneitis is bullshit, but it seems like other guys i know have endulged in it and still kept frame/attraction. The entirety of society arounds me preaches oneitis.. its like im a POS for not pursuing a girl with the intent of marriage or strong LTR. Plz halp