Hey guys, need a little clarity from the community.

I plated this HB8 a couple of months back which ended because her mom got breast cancer for the second time and I guess because I acted a little needy sometimes (even though I managed to keep frame most of the time). Also there was a sexual mishap where I kept going when she wanted to stop (completely misread the situation lol) which led her to break things off. Sucked at first, but I basically apologized and if she was up for me to straighten things out face to face she could drop me a line. She did so after a month of no contact, a month I used to get a few new notches on my belt and starting to hit the gym again after a period of slacking. We chit-chatted a bit and she asked me if I wanted to go grab a drink, a date which she then flaked on twice because "family situation and a lot on her mind".

All good, I was doing fine and re-aligning my priorities, getting laid often enough for my liking. We had a bit of back and forth over the next two weeks where I wished her strength with her mom's surgery and then tried initiating contact two weeks after that, no answer. Now, several months later, even though she'd been severely nexted in my mind and she's now off my radar, I suddenly became morbidly curious in the past week. Curious whether or not it really was her shitty family situation that made her push me away or I subtly fucked up and I just don't see where yet. Probably a very volatile mix of both is my guess.

I want to try and see if I can re-ignite her interest. To improve my game, basically. I have no problem with her continuing to ghost me if I fail at this point, I got plenty of things going on at the moment. I know, however, that I have pretty weak game, so I'm looking for opportunities to learn. She was a hell of a plate, so I figure best case scenario I get a chick back that loves it up the ass and worst case things remain as they are now.

Anyone got experience in text game regarding this? Do you just hang back and let the plates come back when they do?

Any advice is much appreciated.