more often than not, if I get bored of a plate or they try too hard to lock me down, I just next by ghosting. no explanation. sure, its dickish completely ghosting, but i'm lazy and don't really care.

but after reading a post on the main sub this past week about "re-shelving plates" I figure throwing some of these plates back into the rotation would be low effort if they come back. I usually block them on social media after the fact, but I still keep their numbers, so i'm left with them trying to reach out after I "next" them with no response from me.

months down the line, what would be the best way to try and re-plate these ones? send out something like "hey, back in town, lets catch up"? or just go for a quick "hey" and if they respond back invite over.

sure, you can say go out and meet new girls, but I figure this would be a low-investment way to throw a couple back into the rotation if the interest is still there.