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[–]OFAFV 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Anger phase people commenting.
Ever question why she stuck with a drug abusing broke loser? Please do look at other possible red flags you may have missed or purposedly hamstered away/neglected/downplayed. Even the slightest ones please.
Assuming you absolutely from an unbiased point of view do not see any problems after going through the steps in 2, feel free to date her. It is your life anyhow. Take note of AWALT though, the possibility is always there. That is what AWALT means so be careful. There are LTR-able women out there, but it is quite few
[–]Bulk_king111 point2 points3 points 9 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
thank for you responding, as to your second question, she knew me before I was a full blown drug addict and I hid it pretty well for a while, she said she always saw my potential and knew I could get through it. Although I was a drug addict I was a "functioning" one. (hate using that term because theres really no such thing but I was as close as one could be). I had my own place, nice car, good paying job/career, was in school, always had women who wanted me, great personality/looks, etc. my SMV was pretty high even though inside I was slowly dying and then it all eventually caught up to me and I couldnt afford the addiction both finically and physically. She wanted me sober, she would even attend meetings with me, who the fuck would do that? I know I wouldnt.
Could it be that a woman invest a lot of time in one guy (especially one who was raised well, has a low partner count, was taught to play the red pill woman role in a relationship, is very receptive to RP concepts, has morals and doesnt slut around) that no matter what happens she will be there for him? I know the RP says its impossible but thats pretty much saying that a woman cant make their own decisions even if it goes against their common nature.
I might be fucking insane but I have been around a shit ton of women, dated, fucked, everything, and I can tell you that 98% of them aint worth shit and would leave on the drop of a dime at the site of any trouble, but for some reasons the 3 years (off and on) time I spent with this woman, and all the test she has past, shit I put her through, I think if I got all my limbs blown off tomorrow, and became a vegetable she would wipe my ass (shes a nurse) and be there for me till the last breathe I took. I am not a hopeless romantic, love is corny to me, but this girl genuinely loves me or whatever you want to call it and I dont know why, I mean I do, but I dont. I know 95% of you would read this and think I am full of shit and retarded and blind but I am tell you. She has morals and the way she was raised and the way she acts, She is the unicorn that everyone says dont exsist, and its been fucking with me for a while, because she goes against everything Ive always read on here, that 99% of the woman I meet fall under.
edit: BUT I must say The only way I could see her wanting to not be with me, is if I turned beta and became pathetic bitch, If I went out a vegetable as the person I am now, she would stay, But if I became a pathetic bitch I could see her breaking up with me because of that.
Maybe this contradicts everything I said above, but what I am getting at is because of the alpha I am, she will always want to be with me as that person, No matter what happens, I think the lesson I am learning here is a woman would rather be with an Alpha male who becomes a vegetable and has an alpha legacy than with a needy beta bitch. sorry man I kind of am just rambling thoughts off here
[–]OFAFV 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Feel free to pursue her. But always know AWALT. Awareness alone is huge for you
[–]Bulk_king110 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I added a shit load more to that, I think the last part is all that matters.
Which Kind of ties into what youre saying I believe
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