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Recently started up a consistent hookup with a girl I've seen around campus and have found incredibly attractive. Used TRP advice to get the hookup, but don't know how I should approach this - relationship or continue hooking up?

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October 23, 2017

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Title	Recently started up a consistent hookup with a girl I've seen around campus and have found incredibly attractive. Used TRP advice to get the hookup, but don't know how I should approach this - relationship or continue hooking up?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	October 23, 2017 8:02 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/786a73/recently_started_up_a_consistent_hookup_with_a/
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[–]Smigg_e1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Smigg_e1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]SeekingTheWay1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

TRP doesn't have a specific stance on anything. There are generally repeated ideas, but treat TRP as a salad bar. Simply choose what fits your motives/desires and ditch the rest. Like you can find advices for how to loose weight and how to gain. Obviously you aren't going to do both, you will choose what helps you with the desired outcome and stick with it.

With this analogy in mind - if you feel like there could be a deeper connection, date her. I would say majority of TRP recommends plating only instead of dating, but I find myself enjoying a LTR regardless. Just don't get too emotionally invested in case it blows up. I like my LTR girl very much, but if she dumped me today, it wouldn't be the end of my world and I would already have a lot of chicks to follow up on the attraction I build anyway, despite my LTR, simply being awesome and DHVing as I go.

[–]Endorsed Contributorvandaalen0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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