I've been reading TRP for several months now and the results have been amazing. I've greatly improved my life with girls and my life outside of them. Thank you. With that being said, I'm struggling with creating a framework/mindset that is internally consistent and not contradictory. Here are some of the barriers that I've come across in my attempt to solidify this framework.
One one hand, on TRP we say that a woman with a high n count is not a good fit for LTR status. However, we are also very much in favor of spinning plates. Aren't we playing a role in elevating a woman's n count, especially if commitment is not one of our goals (at least not at first)? Aren't we playing a role in creating this world that we don't like but that we have grown to accept?
It is advised to spin plates and to promote a woman to LTR status when she proves herself over time. But what about all the women that we don't promote? We have simply added to their n counts. If this happens several times to a woman, they will end up having a high n count regardless of whether or not their initial goal was simply to find and to commit to a good man who is also good at being a man (mix of alpha and beta traits). Obviously the vast majority of women don't have this goal, but what about the few exceptions/unicorns who do and who have good self-control and awareness?
A criteria for a LTR is a low n count. This would mean that sex does not come easy for this woman because she is able to restrain herself from jumping on the cock carousel. However, on TRP we expect sex to come rather quickly. Many people here say that we should have sex with a woman by the third date or sooner. However, when looking at this from the perspective of a good girl/potential LTR, wouldn't the goal for such a person be to stay with a guy only if commitment is a part of the "deal"?
We hate on women who have sex too easily and we hate on women who withhold sex (which makes sense because we are trading our attention for no sex and this isn't a fair deal for us). What's the best mindset to have then?
There seems to be a huge contradiction. One one hand, we are looking for sex and are looking to plate a woman before turning her into a LTR. However, wouldn't a "LTR level woman" be afraid of simply becoming a plate and raising her n count? How would she know that she is simply not one of the women who will simply never be promoted? A plate is similar to a beta orbiter in several ways. u.Praecipuus explains this dynamic nicely in his article "Plate Spinning: The other side of the coin". Aren't we essentially doing to women the very thing that we hate being done to us?
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