A little of background

Im with my girl (26 years old) for over a year now. Lately sex have been great (one of the best of my life actually) and when we see eachother things are generally pretty cool and nice. I hold frame and give an IDGAF attitude as much as i can (im actually pretty neurtic guy so it's hard for me, however i try my best). Usually we see eachother 1-2 times in a week. I try to not initiate contact for reasons other than logistics (meet me here and there, this time, etc.) as i try to follow TRP principles.

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The problem

Last week i acted pretty childish, lost my frame and got mad. Cut contant with her for 3 days, what was my second mistake. However few days later i just texted her to meet me at my place. We had a great time (besides at the beggining she was clearly mad, but i didn't really gave it any attention). After we had nice sex she was back to being my good girl.

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But...

Her hamster began to spin at speeds i had not seen before. She noticed a few things that led her to think that im cheating on her, or atleast seeing other girls. I let it spin and didn't say anything. She was clearly mad, but didn't behave in a bad way, so i just let it go. I had other plans this evening so i walked her for a bus and had a warm goodbye. She is radio silent though, she used to send me some message every other day just to stay in touch. I would like to see her soon and give us both some pleasure without being seen needy (im planning like 95% of our meetings tho, she has never refused without a real reason, so i guess that im just leading the thing).

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What would you guys propose?

Just don't care and propose another meeting? Don't reach out first and wait for her reaction? Give some comfort, simple text or call?

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In addition

I'm working on my lack of abundance. When i'm alone at parties i try to flirt with other girls, same in public places when i'm in mood. Also i came back to approaching girls at day game.