Yo, I am quite new on this sub but not new to what the sub represents, I have been improving and maturing for a while but just got into the whole aspect of dealing with girls and with that, masculinity

I have four sisters and so I always had huge respects for girls and learned to look at them like they were sacred angels from above, my family also are muslim so with that I got the thinking that having sex with girls is bad and that in a way that girls don't want sex and that by having sex with girls they are losing out somehow, like they are being used

Obviously this sort of paradigm is fucking full of shit and is toxic as hell, I am no longer muslim since long ago (family knows now too) and I have learned that girls are horny and crave sex just as much if not more than us men, that girls aren't angels but in many ways the opposite in the way they generally act and deal with things in life, this was hard to implement but it makes so much sense so it was impossible to deny it too

With that background covered I got a few questions on I guess pretty macro-level stuff when it comes to pursuing girls and passing their shittests,

First of all what are the signs that a girl is in fact shittesting you and doesn't actually want you to fuck off and leave her alone? I understand that to many people it might be very clear and I understand how u mean (not autistic) but I am asking for more like detailed sort of behavior that u can recognize and look for

When is it too much? At what point do you start to hound after the girl rather than passing her shittests? Example: You are at the club and there is this fine ass brunette dancing close to you, you tried grabbing her for some grinding but she wouldn't have it and keeps looking at her girlfriends or just another way (ignoring you). Do you stay close and then try again but be more dominant about it? Or do you say fuck it and go to someone else? (Keep in mind the girl is super hot so u do really wanna bury ur dick in dat ass later), or maybe go for her girlfriends?

I guess this is important to me because of what I mentioned in my background, my paradigm that portrayed girls as angels still is not erased completely and so I'm still uncertain about the boundaries regarding the process of pursuing girls aggresively

I realize that when you carry your own frame this is one of the things you risk doing is crossing these sort of boundaries, perhaps the solution is just to not care about sometimes crossing those boundaries since talking/trying to dance with girls won't actually do they any harm instead it will always make them happy in the end that a guy sticked their neck out for so long to try and get their hands on them

Feel free to go off format and explain theories regarding the topic