I've been able to manage to spin around 2-3 plates for the last 2 months.Nevertheless I used 5 different datingapps and I have been grinding hard to get to that pointNow one of my plates (29) is always babbering and talking about open relationship, like how it's no different from being fuckbuddys like we are right now (haha women).And one other girl (24) doesn't know, that I'm whoring around, which kind of bothers me, because she was a virgin and I was her first one and I'm constantly lying to her. (yeah I know those foids lie, too. All the time)I try to always find one in addition to my rotation to ensure I get sex like 2 times a week at least.Although I think I'm doing quite okay, for me being only a chadlite, it is rather time consuming.So I have two active girls and every now and then I date some random girl to try and see what happens and keep me in the game.

Now to my question: I think have three options here:

  1. monogamy with the conservative girl (24) who has been a virgin (up to the age of 24!! and she isn't even ugly 7-7,5)
  2. "open relationship" with the kind of crazy wallwhore (29), who is very fun, sex is awsome, she has a cool place, good job etc
  3. keep on grinding dating apps and hoping to keep it all together like I do right now

I have experiences with option 1) , which have been okayish, but we all know that you can never own a woman and it's just your turn.

And I have benn on option 3) right now for 2 years until now, but I have never been very sucessful up to the point 2 months ago, so I think it is not very sustainable, because I spend much time on datingapps and on dates which lead to nothing.It takes like 10 Matches for one to meet and like only about 3 are going fot the kissing and maybe one of those I wind up fcking.

My problem with option 2) is that I think I would fall into her frame, and being a woman, even if she's just a 6-7 in looks she will always have an endless suply of sexpartners, while I have to farm those apps like 1-2 hours a day, which is very timeconsuming and annoying. And I maybe would get jelous, because as a woman she will always have more options than me, alone through dating apps, because there are so many guys and guys dating down. But she also talked about how she'd like to try out haveing a threesome with either a guy or a girl... (but she really enjoys the sex with me. Most of the time she asks me to come over and she has like 2-3 orgasms every time)

What are your thoughts, can you give a 24 year old guy some insight?