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[–]downvoteacct1 points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Every random person you talk to will have value in their network. You want to build relationships with guys to get access to their networks (parties, hobby groups) and the people they know.
Now, what did you do that brought enough value to get invited to an event?
[–]trprdtor points points points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I think I just don't care enough of later outcomes, maybe I'm shortsighted. Whether I get a later benefit or not I'm in the mindset that I'm still gonna have an awesome time no matter what, because I'm awesome. Is that egotistical or just ignorant?
[–]downvoteacct12 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
That's contradictory. You can't just say you're awesome then worry if it's egotistical or ignorant. Those are the right words, sure, but..
It's a numbers game. The more social connections you have in your life, the better odds that one of them has what you want (which right now, is a vagina)
It builds an abundance mentality. You shouldn't just have "enough" people in your life, you should have "plenty" of them. Ration your time out so the most valuable people get the most of it. The rest get clockwork socialization about the activities you do together every 3 days, 7 days, ect.
[–]GeminiEngine0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If I showed you a room filled with 100s of pounds shit and that some of those turds had diamonds in it. Couple of carrots to couple dozen per rock. That room has about a pound of diamonds in it.
Are you really going to skip out on some shitty work to find the gems you want? I know this is a contrived setup, but we both know your answer to it.
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