I live with really social roommates, some are in a frat. I’m not the most social guy but I’m really good with one of them which is how I live in that room. (8 of us)

I simply can’t keep up. They party, drink, and almost never do work all the time. Being much less social proves a big challenge and I’m slowly losing their respect.

Any way to be more social and gain respect while being able to say no to some events in order to focus on school?

(Have a hard time of saying no bc I feel like they’ll lose more respect).