I meet a chick I smash her. They tell me how hot I am and how ripped I am. How they can’t believe I am single blah blah blah. Then they start catching feelings. “I’ve never met anyone like you. I’m falling for you”.

Usually this is after a few weeks. Like super quick. I just keep smashing and like whatever since I’ve heard it so many times. Then they start to pull away and start ghosting me all together.

Current girl said I’m the only guy who made her cum and how much she likes me but then doesn’t text me. Is very standofish and never even wants to hang out. In the beginning she was chasing me wanting to hang out every second. Now, her last text “if I’m around this weekend I’ll let you know”. So I don’t respond to that shit.

So I don’t text now and am not going to chase her. What should I do? Just keep playing the stupid game? Why do they come on so strong and then retreat? Is it because I’m not saying I have feelings for her? If I say that then won’t that mean I’m a beta and she will leave anyways?

But she’s a good smash and I would like to keep her around.

Btw I’m 34 and she’s 20. Not to sound cocky but I’m pretty good looking. Girls hit on me in front of her all the time. I get girls that whistle at me. Does that make girls more insecure? I’m feeling that she thinks I’m out of her league and seeing if I will come back down to her level.