I first met her at a party last weekend and we slept together and she stayed the night. Yesterday I picked her up again and we did it again. At first she didn't want to have sex and was constantly comfort testing me, she was paranoid that I wouldn't want to see her again if we did it. I said that was fine and she didn't owe it to me or anything and continued to escalate. We had sex 3 times and I took her home that evening. I made sure to fuck her good and take time afterwards so she doesn't feel used.

After I fuck a girl like that she usually latches on hard and it's easy punches from there but she still hasn't texted me. I don't want to give her the impression that I'm too keen or too indifferent as I like this girl and am vetting her for an ltr. Only green flags so far, she works every day and is studying to be a nurse also. Hb 7 but I don't mind honestly as we have great chemistry. Im not going to rush this though and ill wait for her to chase me and I will continue to be the A side in our relationship.

Usually I would wait for her to text me again but because of her insecurities she could be too scared so would it be a mistake to text her something cheeky like "miss me yet" if she still hasn't texted me in a couple days?

The dynamic is such that I have all the power at the moment and would like to keep it that way. I'm alot more comfortable around her then she is around me.