Back story: mid twenties, 2 girlfriends total, 0 other lays. My last girlfriend (4years) broke up with me ~1 month ago and I have a 2yo kid with her. It was mostly a blue pilled relationship although she respects me, doesn't give me shit and we are in good terms. After I came across TRP I realised I was lacking a lot in personal development and being the leader so I don't blame her at all for breaking it up with me and I feel kinda relieved as I feel I was going down the rabbit hole (of my own making).

I always put woman on a pedestal and always lacked, not confidence, but action. So I never really went dating, I went on 2 dates in my entire life and one of them was with my ex mentioned above, the other one was yesterday which I'm seeking advice for.

I'm still scratching the surface of TRP so I'm sure I made a lot of mistakes, feel free to point them out.

Met this girl (I would say a 7, if that matters) on Tinder, she's a local and I'm a foreigner without local language knowledge. Tinder chat felt pretty much like an interrogation from her and I just answered the questions without asking anything back. Eventually I asked her on a date to which she replied she was busy but maybe another time. I asked her phone # and we set up a date then. When setting up the date I tried to force a house date (for her to come over) and she put up resistance so after a bit of a back and forth I told her to meet me at a coffee place. We met, she's cute but doesn't speak as much English as we'd like so communication wasn't very fluid. We made it work with some Google Translate in the middle. We sat across each other in a big ass table so contact was hard. For about an hour we were doing the lame ask and tell routine (I know my fault) but I did make her laugh and saw some IOIs. So after about an hour I told her for us to go for a walk as I figured it would be easier to escalate.

Everything was going good and after about 5~10 min walk I went for the kiss, no resistance on her part, we kissed for 5~10sec and I kept going as if nothing had happened. After that we were walking and my lack of leadership showed up and I let her lead the way. I was just walking aimlessly (shame on me) towards my car when she said where're we going, her house is the other way. I asked her half-assedly if she wants to come for a drink at my place to which she replied she's working the next day so I just dropped it and we went walking towards her house. At that point I no longer felt in control and after about 5min walk I told her I'll go back to my car because I will lose track of where I left it (true but maybe stupid in retrospect). Anyway, went for another kiss at goodbye but this time it felt force so I just stopped almost immediately and said 'we should meet another time', she: 'yes', me: 'only if you want..' facepalm. Once I said that I knew I screwed up and just wanted to get out of there.

Got home, was feeling good for the practice and without expectations on a second date. I did anyway text her first what is her plan for the rest of the week one hour after I got home (another mistake I guess).

She replied the next day (today): "I don't know, I'm waiting for the weekend". To which I'll be waiting for your advice before I formulate an answer :)

So, my question is, what do I do now? I feel like I'm more invested than her at this point even though I'm not clingy or needy but I don't know how to go about second dates or even first dates for that matter. Any advice appreciated.