Hey guys, i came to ask you for this beacuse i know how this community just gives you the hard truth and its straight forward, so basicly i have noticed this thing that people dont like ti be around me like i feel like they are ashamed to be with me even tho i am cool with a lot of people, like they dont give me the attention i give to them, i am a very extroverted person i like talking a lot and i am genuienly a happy person, i never get called, rarley get texted first i have to always call first text first say hi first always its like i have to do all the work to get people to talk to me and it bothers me why do i have to do this first and they never put the effort like i do

To get the idea how it looks; I was talking to this classmate the other day and this is hoe it went.

A is me.

A: hi good morning how are you B:Good A:how did you sleep last night had any bad dreams B: well, not really

This is just an example people dont have intrest in me. I have a group of close friends and they also rarley call me. So I sat down one day and thought what could be wrong.

  1. I am a very aggresive looking dude like short hair and a beard i have that angry look
  2. I was a big douchebag like a year and a half ago like people despised me cus i uset to laugh st their face and shit
  3. The last option i think is that im just a very boring person even tho i am considerd in the class as the one who jokes all the time and makes my class laugh all the time.

Sorry for my bad english, and for info i am 18 years old.