Around 3 months ago she started ghosting me I tried to reach out two consecutive days after the initial ghosting but then I instantly cut my losses and stopped messaging, 3 months today she sends me a message saying “miss yo. What do you guys think the play is. Will I seem needy if I let her back in my life, or is it better to keep it moving. How should I respond to this
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This is the true answer. Listen to this man.
If she wasn't interested in you before, she won't be interested in you right now. No contact does work, but she is contacting you because she misses her attention.
Women operate on covert contracts.
If you were a beta Billy to her, she has a covert contract with you for getting your time and attention with her giving nothing at all.
Now you're focusing on yourself and you're not giving her time and attention for free. And she is pissed off.
She wants you to be her time hoe.
If you can go full neanderthal on her ass and not give her any attention or validation and pump and dump her, then you can go ahead.
Otherwise cut her off.
Don't give your attention and validation for free.
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