Hello 20 y/o male here, been reading trp for a short time. Just a small background: I met her at a bar by a common friend, we chatted for a bit and she had to leave. She seemed interested. Didn't have any contact for a while, then I saw her on a cafe couple of days ago. Found her on facebook, added her and she texted me first. We started talking for a bit, then continued the next day. Meanwhile, if I wasn't answering her (I was reading the messaged and not responding just to build some tension and not seem needy) she was spamming me with different questions etc. I asked for her mobile phone, and her response kind of made me question her interest, she said; I don't know you very well, I can't, and followed by; I want to make myself clear; I don't want a relationship or something because I want to focus completely on my studying (she's 18, last year at school). I said I am fine by that (as I don't want a relationship either, just to bang her), and I asked her to hangout, which she agreed, and we did today. Didn't have enough time because she had to take the bus on her way back home, so we hanged for 40'.

My question is; Why does she want to hang out with me and can't stand me not responding to her messages if she doesn't want a relationship or w/e. It's confusing

Thanks