Reconnected with an old flame, i havnt seen her in over 10 years. She reached out to me after breaking up with her LTR, and now is moving back to this area. Shes flying in tomorrow for xmas, im gonna see her sat night.

At first i figured she just wanted some rebound sex to get over her ex. Im fine with that.

Now shes texting me a lot, very flirty and very excited to see me, but also keeps mentioning her ex. They broke up a month ago.. she mentions shit like how he wouldnt let her cut her hair, get any tattoos or piercings, would consistantly go over the rules of the house, and other shit that suggests she was in a messy relationship. She remembers me from my true bp beta days and is reminiscent of me being "so sweet to her". That was 12yrs ago, I am not that same virgin boy anymore..

So far everytime shes brung this up, ive ignored it and quickly changed topics. But its coming to a point where i think she obviously wants me to ask her about it..

How should I handle this?