I have just had a message from a girl, the second of it's nature in recent months and I am unsure how to respond to it. I have this routine as a currently unemployed man to spam add hot 17-19 year old girls on Facebook and then message the really attractive ones or wait for some to message me, then move onto getting them to come over for a swim. This is a very low reward strategy and I need a job because holy fuck ……. However Ive been at it for 3 weeks and I've had 1 hottie over so far and 1 that seems incredibly enthusiastic to come over this weekend.

The response I got from one of the hotties I messaged responded with "I don't know you very well", I replied with "That's why im inviting you over so we can get to know each other", She than said "Why would I go over to a randoms house?". That last question is what stumps me with girls, when they call me out for being a random.

Anything I can say to spin it around back into my frame?