Shit test?

vandaalen · 2017-12-20T10:08:33+00:00

That's not a shit test, but anti slut defense and she shows that behavior because you thought that it was a good idea to tell her that she is a cheap slut, before you even fucked her. You could have just invited her to your place without flat out telling her that she will come in order to get fucked. That shit usually just flies with women you already fucked and "allowed" to let their inner slut out.

Also the behavior afterwards is pretty cringe worthy. No reason to hard next. Just keep it light, meet anyways, escalate, fuck. They want to be a slut without feeling like one, and they need room to hamster that they are not coming over just to get fucked.

Conor_Niggregor · 2017-12-20T11:02:12+00:00

Damn, you made a lot of mistakes.

the following morning I ask what she wanted and told me she wanted me to hangout with her and come to her place. (unless I have something wrong here then she was looking for a fuck)

You're right

I say whatever, then I text her "well just let me know whenever you feel like being aroused?"

Don't say shit like this if you haven't fucked her yet.

Immediately she says she things will not work out between us because she is not easy like the girls that I like.

Anti-slut defense. You should have just told her to have a snickers.

I accidently showed her my tinder on the first date (got a bit too drunk).

That isn't an accident. It's a mistake. I suggest you not get "drunk" around girls. Especially if you haven't smashed yet.

Anyway I have no idea how to respond to this so I go ahead and tell her if there is something I can do to change her mind,

cringe

then I proceed to just tell her well it was nice to meet you, you were a nice girl, would want to meet someone like you again.

you were just snowballing at this point, huh? she now likely thinks she was a big deal and hurt you.

I hard next her and deleted all contact from my phone.

Well, after all you've done up to this point, that was the right move.

Don't really care too much for the L but just curious to know what I did wrong?

You misunderstood. You've likely been corrupted.

I look at the girls actions as taught in the RP but im just curious to know if my overtness was what killed the attraction/interest?

It likely didn't kill the attraction until you started snowballing. Also, as I hinted at above, you rely too much on RP. Your foundation when dealing with women should be game/pick-up, not RP. RP should be a supplement/accessory to your game. Because you have to understand, a lot of the shit you read in TRP is written by guys who actually don't know wtf they're talking about.

I have a very direct way of speaking, because I just say what I need to say and dgaf.

There's something to be said about being tactful.

Im what you guys would consider a natural Alpha

Not sure what you mean here.. No offense, but you had some glaring beta tendencies in this post.

And since I'm pretty autistic when it comes to women because they have always come to me, so I'm trying to learn how to approach them and game them.

There is some good game advice in TRP, but rely first on the teachings of the "master" PUAs. A lot of advice you pick up here may sound empowering, but it comes from a negative place and won't get you the result you're looking for.

Title	Shit test?
Author	nardwannabe
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	December 20, 2017 9:59 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7l0gww/shit_test/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/shit-test.120427 https://theredarchive.com/post/120427

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