Hey all,

I went to a party a few days ago, several people from college were there including these two girls that approached me. One of them is very attractive and most of the guys at college have showed interest in her but she always turns them down. She's very flirty to guys though, including me. She knows she's hot and takes advantage of this.

She hasn't had a boyfriend for a year and no casual sex either which is very strange considering her attractiveness. The other girl is not so attractive but expressed interest verbally when we first met, I declined though. Occasionally she flirts but I always act disinterested or ignore her.

Any way, they basically said I was very attractive but I fuck everything up when I speak. Another girl, who I never spoke to overheard this, approached us and agreed. The way I dress myself is also a problem according to them. I never had a real conversation with either of them, just casual banter.

I'm an extrovert and I'm considered funny by many who know me. I'm obviously capable of having a serious conversation but most of the time I'm fucking around, saying stupid things. People laugh, I enjoy myself that's just who I am. For example I'm the kind of guy who doesn't care walking around a campsite at night with sunglasses, boxers and a robe to mess with people.

I replied to them by saying we never actually had a conversation and that we should all go out and buy new clothes for me with a smile. They eagerly agreed.

To clear up any confusion, I don't look like a hobo or anything. I normally wear a hoodie, a top, whatever and jeans. Casual clothing, nothing flashy.

Do you think these were shit tests? I have to agree that I could have better style. As for the way I conduct myself in public, that's just me. I get a big kick out of joking around with people and laughing. Some perceive me as immature. Every time I'm serious or quiet people who know me think that something's wrong

Thanks for reading.

EDIT: I'm 19, they are like 21 or 22.