We both 29, about 5 months exclusive now. Thought I loved her but now that feel is gone.

I do all the work, even In the bedroom FFS. She has tight hips and hamstrings but I have tendinosis that I could claim disability over and I still do all the fucking FFS.

I've never once complained or griped to her about my fee fees other than once very early on, she realized she fucked up bad and apologized(failed to introduce me to her rec bbal team when I came to one of her games for the first time)

What do?

Long story short, I woulda stayed single since I'm only seeing/fucking 2x a week. I would have kept her as someone I was dating. Her races and training for it will end in Dec but I'm so neck deep in flipping homes and work I wont have time to pursue any new pussy for a min.

Draw back is she is the best GF i've ever had besides that. Doesn't play games, we've never once argued or even fought, we can agree to disagree, I hate she is lefty leaning but she legit hears my opinions on my feelings and doesn't dehumanize me by trying to say I'm a racist whitey.

She into her fitness so she goes to gym at like 4am, so she usually goes home by 830 on weeknights. She does 10ks like every other weekend so I'm only seeing her 2x a week when she has a race that weekend and maybe 3x a week when she doesn't have a race that sun.

I've already emotially distanced myself, got close to spilling the beans on how she isn't giving me what I need, don't feel the same way for her anymore when she was my oneitis/unicorn 4 months ago.

tl;dr should I tell her I'm fucking sick of the shit she is doing that bothers me and what exactly it is or just fucking tell her she isn't fulfilling my needs and that I don't feel the same way for her anymore and that it's over.

To her credit she is

  • Sober

  • College grad with great job in IT

  • A really good gf

but I need sex/sexual interactions like 5x a week to be satisfied with a woman where I don't care about the little things that might bother me. If I knew the training for her races would take up a ton of her time( before anyone says she is out fucking chad she isn't, she is prideful as fuck and posts all her running stats to show she is getting faster and faster paced.)