sent a needy message on discord, thinking about deleting it. its about a sitation shes in. how i know what shes feeling blah blah blah. she wont be able to read it until tomorrow. ive sent some other messsages to her while she hasnt had her phone for this weekend that could hide the one i delete . shell get the notifications but unless remembers the number of message it says on the side she wont know. how much attention to detail do women really have? would a women notice this? id rather do damage control with the message than her think im even thinking that much about it