Hey guys, I have a serious oneitis on this plate of mine. We've been fucking for 7 months now and I have been seeing other people too. The thing is, even though I haven't given her my commitment, I feel like I've lost all frame in the relationship. Most of the time we hangout on her schedule, and when I'm not with her trying to do school work I can't concentrate.

I value my career and health first, and I can tell that this relationship is harming this value. I have no desire to LTR her cause I think she's disrespectful and crazy. The only reason besides sex that I can see to stay with her is that this pain will make me a stronger person.

The thoughts of her have gotten in the way of studying, but school ends this week anyway so I'm just gonna fuck her until she leaves for Michigan. What I want to ask though, is should you ever drop a plate if it starts to get to this point?? Hypothetically, if she wasn't leaving, should I have ended this relationship way earlier/right now?