There is a girl who I have tried to date. She has a very hot and cold personality, sometimes when she sees me she seems like she is really into me. Then, for whatever reason she acts distant. I'm confused so I tell her point blank I like her I want to date her. She said she wanted to be friends first. I assumed she friendzoned me. So, I moved on and went radiosilent after we ate. Then, two weeks later after our lunch she texts me randomly about another girl we both mutually know and an inside joke we had with her. And then I texted her back like 12 hours later. She didn't respond to my text. I'm very confused like why we should text me? Like I thought she moved on. It is honestly messing with my head bc it took a lot for me to put myself in a vulnerable position to say I like her, then force myself to move on and date other women when I thought it was over and then have her text me again.

I don't know what she is doing. Is she playing head games? Is she keeping me on reserve? Or does she want me to ask her out again?