My LTR broke up with me a month ago for no reason, now she wants me back and we recently started back talking a few days ago after no contact. I wanted her back too because the feelings are strong, but yesterday she just told me she had sex with another guy who was on some bdsm shit that slapped the hell out of her without warning, she didn’t like it. Apparently for her I was one of the only people she thought she could talk to about the situation but fuck no I wasn’t. Now my pride is telling me don’t take her back but I would have if she hadn’t told me.

I have other women but I thought I should just get outside insight and opinions.