Long story short, 3 years ago I (20 at the time) met a girl (25) at my track and field club. Got along pretty good but got friendzoned because first female experience. I kinda admitted my feelings and since then she has become distant but still likes my stuff on facebook.

Today, my mother told me how she is feeling so well since I gave her some kombucha that the girl made. This is the first time in over 10 years I heard my mother feeling this way and I feel like thanking her for what she did for me.

I feel like it's super beta and might lose respect but in any case, the ship has sailed so what do I have to lose. I haven't talked to her in half a year.

Advice?