After reading TRM - Rollo Tomassi I have discarded LDRs,I hope to get some advice from you guys:

I started spinning plates looking for an ltr. I wanted to travel with a stable relationship since I sometimes travel with plates that i don't care much about, some trips went awesome some went bad.

but the thing is this plate was getting on me , she is fun and we laugh a lot , maybe I grew lazy but she got to me, and she went to south Africa fro one of those voluntary camps, she left and i didn't give it much thought it was only a month and she wrote every day (i never initiated conversation) now only a week for her to come back and things have gone cold as ice , she rarely writes and when she does it like out of compromise and in social media (horrible but its the way i get new plates) she uploads vids with the same guy, i don't mind if shes sleeping with him but finally getting to the question , should i wait for next week and see how it goes? or should i stop answering and drop it cold?i should have spun plates meanwhile i know, but this month in the job ( 12hrs)has been crazy and all i can do i chat with some Instagram girls