Shutting down shit-tests

redhawkes · 2019-07-05T14:01:04+00:00

There's an option such is ignore and not putting up with bullshit.

Amused Mastery also. You know what's up and you're having fun with it.

Reframe, put the other on defensive.

Reacting to shit test is the surest way to fail. Verbalizing and overt communication doesn't translate well with women. Entry level TRP material.

McVaghunter · 2019-07-05T15:16:54+00:00

Give an example of a shit test and I'll tell you how I'll respond IRL

OrzhovPalatine · 2019-07-05T13:50:18+00:00

All that matters is she sees that the shit test doesnt diminish you or get you emotional. Everybody shuts down shit tests differently, do what is natural to you.

Telling her to shut up without prefacing why IMO just buys you time before she does it again. Telling her to stftu and why she needs to stfu IMO solves the problem long term.

MattyAnon · 2019-07-05T16:36:58+00:00

the only ways to pass shit tests?

No, you can flat out ignore them. Or call her out on it. Telling her to shut up can work too, yes.

Anything except agreeing with her shit or getting flustered.

sea_light_house · 2019-07-05T17:27:52+00:00

How you handle depends upon you. But too much shit testing is a red signal. I handle it by being polite the first time, then ghosting/indifference. Esp. if women see too much Beta in you, they shit test too much or if they are prior to hitting the wall, they do it too much.

[deleted] · 2019-07-05T21:46:23+00:00

fart in her face & walk away smirking

Title	Shutting down shit-tests
Author	only_red
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	July 5, 2019 1:44 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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