Hey guys, I have been reading the side bar for the past 3 days (and I've still not finished it yet, they are all great readings, and appeal to my scientific side haha), and I have a question that I hope you guys with more experience can answer.

I've read reform of an incel and Michael's story, while the core of it seems to be supported by other articles such as the polygamous sex and manipulated men, I see a difference that I can't seem to reconcile.

In the polygamous sex, it's stated that there's two types of love, altruistic love and sexual love, and that females tend to want altruistic love over the other. However in reforms of an incel and Michael's story, it seems that females want sexual love first, then altruistic love in the future. An example would be fucking on a CC in their 20s and only planning to settle down in the 30s. Based on the polygamous sex, wouldn't the girls want to secure a 'father figure' man from the start to take care of her through altruistic love?

This is my first post here and hope to learn from the senior brothers here, thank you. (still planning to finish the sidebar, halfway there)