A couple weeks back this girl I went to high school with posted some instagram video in which I noticed she had gained some weight I guess, and that seemingly went all to her thighs (she used to be slim w those petite asses enough for your whole hand) which peaked my interest.

Anyway that prompted me to go through my snapchat quick add a few days later and voila, I found her and added her. After that I never received the add back, but she posts on her instagram stories somewhat frequently and when I go on I view like 2 maybe 3 max but not all of em, mainly just repost bs like “relatable” shit.

So last night I get on snap and I see she finally added me back. I thought ab snapping her something today but I thought I should wait, and coming here for some advice could help. Since she took a long time to add me back im not gonna put myself in a weak position by hitting her instantly.

Now my question is kinda basic but im not too seasoned so I need some guidance. When would you guys say would be an appropriate time to snap her some shit, and how can I produce some type of conversation to hook her at least. I know that the goal is to get off snap and to the number so I can set something up, but I feel like it could be a little wocky. Im 19 btw so snap is like that young people medium, but I just never been big on it, or had the confidence in the past to talk to girls on it.