There is this girl I have been seeing and she seems to be withholding sex for personal reasons. Obviously this leaves me frustrated and I just want to basically tell her "look, you don't fuck and I move on" without actually saying that of course.

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I saw her last night and it was just frustrating. I went in using Kino and right when I was going in for the kill she says she is tired and kicks me out, this has happened a few times before. This is my last straw... been seeing her for around 3 weeks now and its just pathetic on my part.

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We have made plans to go on a day trip somewhere on Friday (she is a Foreign exchange student) although, I am contemplating soft-nexting and just ignoring her. It worries me that this could completely backfire and cause her to hate me.

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Additionally, would a better idea be to go on Friday and if nothing happens then make no further plans, cut contact and wait for her to initiate?

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Simply finding someone else is not an option currently as I am in my looksmaxxing stage, i.e. losing fat. For me I never expected to meet anyone at this stage. The companionship is good enough although, in due time when I am fit and looking sexy, I will no longer have this mindset.

Thanks.