So the idea behind a soft next is to punish bad behaviour by taking attention away.

If a girl cancels on plans/date, should you text after she send her cancellation? Something like “Oh ok, Well let me know if you want to meet up again.”

Or should you just ignore her completely, Because it seems very immature to just ignore a girl for a few days. Surly it’s best to to say ok, then ignore her afterwards so she knows you’re not butt hurt?

For my specific example, we have banged, but she’s been ill with hay fever and period pains for a week (ughhh 🙄) so I’m expecting her to cancel.

Two dates planned with other girls next week so plenty of plays spinning going on.