My main plate that goes to my school used to be nice to me, occasionally cooked extra for me to taste, semi-good sex (could be better) and mostly green flags (of course a few red flags), all that made me start looking on potentially LTRing in 2-3 months MAYBE. (We have seen eachother for nearly 4 months atm)

But recently her behaviour has changed, she started replying less and more cold to my texts and snaps, she started withholding sex more, we have only had sex once the past 4 "dates", latest being today where she was "feeling tired", i told her that she seemed and looked tired, and that ill leave so she can get some rest.

Obviously i have to soft next her, withdraw my attention and start applying some dread.

My question is, how do i soft next and apply dread properly in this situation? I read that soft next periods has to be atleast 10 days, but the problem is that we both are attending a party at our school in 5 days, this friday.I mean, i cant just ignore her the entire evening, that will seem butthurt asf i guess. I see it as a perfect opportunity to start applying some dread though, flirting and just being social with other girls at the party.

And yeah, i know. Dont eat where you shit. But we dont see each other at all in school beside at parties, as she goes to a section far from my section, not even the same building, but still the same school.

What do you think? How should i handle this situation properly? Should i just soft next until friday?

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EDIT: We have lost our golden heart on snapchat, but shes still on my number 1 spot on the best friends list, so im not on hers