Stage 4: Depression

MrEiffel · 2015-12-11T01:17:21+00:00

Your problem is not with women, you are raging against the deeply internalised Disney belief that men and women are equal and that being a good proper nice man will bring you success.

Only when you truly accept that women and men are completely different beings with each their own morals and objectives will you be at peace with their and your actions.

Love certainly exists. But, as with everything, it is conditional.

MattyAnon · 2015-12-11T08:07:56+00:00

I mean my only value to women is fucking how far up I am on the social ladder, earning potential?

Your apparent genetic potential is what you want to be aiming for, not the betabucks earning potential. You are worth how hot you are (8/10 and above only need apply) plus your social worth plus your future commitment/earnings potential (although this is a lot more calculated with women).

Are all attractive women shallow?

Oh no, some of them are not even that deep.

and keep going through the cycles.. how do I progress?

By living you life, for you. Women are a sideshow. Don't let them rule your life.

From this it would seem love does not exist. It only exists for women who ...

Women do not, can not, love as a man loves. Some are more damaged than others. None are as loyal as a man can be. Bank on it, plan accordingly.

but who propogates all this bullshit?

Our culture is made of the media and the people. It's all come about by people doing what they want, within the context of trying to maximise their own desires. Society gets shaped by people, people get shaped by society. Society is how people perceive other people plus the media. It's no one thing that is driving this, it's many millions of people all driving this. Men and women are different and are pulling things in different directions. Everyone is responding to (and creating) the society that everyone else perceives.

I guess they were afraid I would abandon them so 'domesticated' me and now I'm fucked for when I have to leave them..

This is near universal with women.

Find and be friends with the most masculine and successful men you can find. If they don't accept this, you need to work out why. Don't look for a father figure anymore (no straight guy wants a little boy bitch) ... look for equals. Figure it out as you go. Be somewhat prepared to fail.

Title	Stage 4: Depression
Author	imfukdup
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	December 11, 2015 12:54 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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