Started showing gf less affection

imgonnabethegreatest · 2015-05-31T06:03:24+00:00

Obviously she notices that you've changed and it's getting to her. Right now you're playing a weak form of dread game; her hamster is running wild with thoughts such as "why isn't he responding to me?! Is he with another girl??" Just play dumb and if she asks why you're taking longer to respond, tell her you've been busy(which you should actually be lifting weights, reading, etc). Focus on her actions, not her words.

Since you're new, I'd recommend reading through the entire /r/TheRedPill sidebar. It'll be of great use to you, even if you are in an ltr.

Beautiful_Idealism · 2015-05-31T13:09:23+00:00

Read a book but don't tell anyone.

While you are reading the book, turn your phone off.

I recommend the Old Man and the Sea.

This is the first step in becoming too busy to deal with nonsense like that during the day.

MrEiffel · 2015-05-31T07:31:48+00:00

It's good that you're applying TRP principles, but make sure it's not to sudden of a change. When you've been a weak man for so long and suddenly you want to take the reins, well she won't accept it because in her mind you are still weak.

If you're committed to this LTR, improve yourself physically & mentally, slowly change your behaviour and she'll fall in line happily.

Merwebb · 2015-05-31T20:25:56+00:00

Keep on doing your stuff. Discover what makes you happy man.

Thats a shit test, yeah. Be busy.

CastingLimerence · 2015-06-01T03:21:23+00:00

How could she know what you are doing unless you have told her? You didn't immediately throw her your laptop and say "See! This is what you are doing, AWALT bitch" - or introduce her to TRP did you?

grubek · 2015-05-31T06:07:16+00:00

Your girlfriend just called you stupid for nothing. She is so sure you won't leave her that she thinks she can undermine your masculinity and authority. She is out of control and she knows what you are doing.

What you should do is keep doing what you are doing but at the same time start preparing yourself to leave the relationship. Its probably not reparable, but if it is her seeing you have options and truly willing to leave is the best and only way to make her respect you.

You could also expand and give examples on what you are doing because its probable you are making an ass of yourself.

Title	Started showing gf less affection
Author	lubdub456
Upvotes	8
Comments	9
Date	May 31, 2015 5:51 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/37xj72/started_showing_gf_less_affection/
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