So if I stop chasing women and just try to grow my career, keep up my workout and daily routine, do things that make me happy; apparently women will want me? If I am chasing women, clearly they don't desire me. If I stop chasing women then won't I still just be back in the same place? I'm beginning to think getting a woman is just impossible and unless you have lots of money or look like a movie star, you are tied to loneliness your entire life.