I know the title sounds weird, but hear me out.

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So about two years ago I was a complete bum. I was obese, had terrible hygiene, no social/sex life, and no motivation in life. I just sucked as a human being and deep down I knew that. But luckily, I somehow snapped out of it and realized I needed to take action to change my life. Since then, I've lost 70 pounds, put on a decent amount of muscle, got my style and hygiene in check, learned how to properly socialize with people, starting pursuing my interests, etc. I'm definitely very far from perfect or where I want to be in life, but now I'm at a place where I actually kind of like who I am.

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But even though I have all these things to be proud of, I'm still stuck in my old mindset from two years ago. Whenever I get IOI's from a cute girl or people show interest in being my friend, I immediately doubt it. My thoughts go back to what they used to be. "No way a girl like that is actually into me," or "Why are these guys inviting me out to party with them?". Does anyone know how I can snap out of this mindset and back into reality? I know I might sound like a bitch here, but any help would be appreciated.