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Stupid girl needs help

plsdontkillme_ · 2018-08-25T20:36:14+00:00

So basically I just want to clarify what a below average girl is supposed to do. It seems like incel guys can at least become more desirable by getting a nice...

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August 25, 2018

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Title	Stupid girl needs help
Author	plsdontkillme_
Upvotes	3
Comments	26
Date	August 25, 2018 8:36 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9a9xxj/stupid_girl_needs_help/
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[–]RdBull 1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Okay but does anything actually make it possible to marry a chad?

Being super hot. Also, why do you want to marry a chad in the first place? Particularly if you don't have the SMV to hold onto him - and when a man has options, that's particularly difficult. What are you going to do? Nag him? That would only make him bail faster.

Uncle Vasya's Guide For Young Ladies Who Want a Husband

Step 1: If you are a bitch, stop being a bitch. We hate that.

Step 2: Do everything you can to improve your appearance. It's what we care about. "That law degree looks so sexy on you!" - said No Man Ever.

Step 3: Lower your expectations. Prince William is married, Prince Harry is married, Prince George is ~5 years old.

If a girl doesn't want to do those things, then she doesn't really want a husband.

Or do you just marry a beta either way?

In terms of "likelihood of stable marriage" you probably want to marry a high-functioning beta.

Based on your recent post, it seems like it doesn’t matter if you hoe around in your 20s, cause either way only a beta who can’t get any bitches will want to marry.

You don't understand this, yet, because you're still too young, but around 30-35, things equalize and women no longer have the upper hand in the SMP, and after 35, men do.

Also, hoe-ing isn't going to help you down the line. There's a reason it's called the "Thousand Cock Stare" and not the "Thousand Twat Stare". Girls who go out and ride a mile of cock are much more likely to wind up bitter, emotionally broken and distrustful of men, which are not things you want to bring to a marriage.

So you have to decide what you want in life and set out a plan to get there. You are still in the "good" years. Now is not the time to go slack on working out, eating clean, etc. Get fit, stay fit. That is the single most important thing you can do to improve your chances. Have some sort of career to fall back on and start vetting guys between now and 24 so you can marry and have kids (assuming you want kids) while you're still young. Also if you are really looking for a marriage that lasts, find a guy at least a bit older than you, for whom you will always be a hot, young piece of tail.

Good luck.

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[–]Senior EndorsedVasiliyZaitzev2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m not even sure if I want to have kids yet.

You don't have to decide now, but don't wait until your 30s for an "epiphany".

How much older would you suggest going for?

Depends on what you're comfortable with. By 30, a guy has either launched or not, so you know what you're getting. You don't have to marry at 30+ guy at 21, but you may want to expand your horizons a bit. Don't want to get stuck with a dud.

I’m gonna be honest, you’re really making it seem like I’m screwed.

Why? Look, if you are aiming for top 1%, then yeah, that's gonna be tough. You're not ordering a Ken doll off of Amazon. And why the fixation on a "Chad"? They are not necessarily the best partners in marriage. Options, etc.

If I told you I was only going to marry Taylor Swift or whatever the Hollywood "It" girl du jour is, then you'd tell me I was in for some rough sledding and you'd be right. So the question is, what works for you that is also within the realm of possibility?

And by the way things are going, it doesn’t seem like the family type of guys are attracted to me

If you are only dating guys 21-23 (or similar) they don't KNOW that they are family guys yet or not.

even though I’m supposedly “attractive” and thin.

Hold that thought...

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[–]RdBull2 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

How tf would I know how "Mr.right" looks like for you, that's entirely attached to your own preferences.

-"Ideally" you should go a little against your Hypergamy instincts and aim for a family oriented guy with "some" alpha traits, who you consider is IN your league, and then just keep adding value to his life to keep him providing for you and your children IF you want to have any. That's how you "ideally" raise solid kids.

-If you still want to submit your life to Chadthunderscock, then you should aim for the "old king Chad" who's tired of fucking women left and right and ready to settle down (usually guys from 30 to 50 years old), not the prince, the prince Chad, the wet dream of any women, is bussy fucking bitches and making his OWN life awesome, you'll never get him, you could but it's a risky bet.

What you should expect from this old king, is that he won't be "Loyal" by definition once you get older/fatter/uglier, but you'll have to be loyal to him, Cuz he's most likely to take all the precautions possible to not share his assets until his physical death. But hey! You have beautiful strong sons in exchange.

How do you attract and keep a man for more than ONS - > by being more feminine.

-But buut What's being feminine nowadays!, nobody teached me that! - > you're lucky, you can read the sidebar on RPwomen.

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