First time posting on asktrp, so bear with me.

I have some ingrained size/performance anxiety about my member that has prevented me from hooking up with girls. Pushing noodle is a very disheartening experience that causes a negative spiral.

Recently in the game after getting out of a LTR, meditate daily, lift daily, no porn. I have an above average/ slightly big sized member, but none of the those objective measures means anything to my subconscious brain telling me I’m not good enough. What can I do to help this and enjoy the sex life I know that I can?