I feel like the confident or higher SMV girls see right through this. This and response times over 1-2 hrs. I think it comes off as try-hard or way too douchey for it to work with these types of women who get consistent attention from other high(er) value males. All women need attention. Your lower SMV plates don't need your attention, they're happy to just be fucking you since your SMV is much higher than theirs. Once you get to the girls who are one point below or almost equal to your SMV, the girls you actually want to be fucking, you have to give them sex and more attention otherwise they'll go to another guy who gives them attention. They know they're hot and they deserve attention, so you withholding it comes off as forced and therefore insecure. I view texting only for logistics as a way of withholding attention from women, only giving it to them when absolutely necessary.

Often I see people on this sub recommending to make plans with women in the form that she joins your plans of what you were doing anyway. That way if she rejects you, she didn't actually reject you since you were going to do it anyway, and you can feel better about it. Also, it shows leadership/dominance and if she chooses to clear her schedule and join your plans, she's actually submitting to you in a way.

Ex. "Hey, I'm checking out this bar tonight at 10PM, meet me there". or "I'm grabbing lunch at Wendy's at noon, join me". Plans are usually made day of or day before.

If a girl tried to make plans with me this way, there's a 0% chance I'd accept. Why? Because it would establish a power dynamic in which I join HER plans on a whim, implying my time is worth less than hers and I'm at her service. Higher SMV girls are reluctant to give away power to guys this easily. I think they see that this format of making plans projects fear of rejection or they see it as a power grab early on, which makes them skeptical of your status or wary that you're trying to play them. I also think texting only for logistics sparks the same power grab, they see you're trying to setup a bootycall dynamic and they know they're too good for that. No girl wants to consciously be your bootycall. Once her "Is he using me as a bootycall"? alarm goes off, that triggers the ASD, and if she values herself she will walk. On a certain level, she wants you to "work" for it, otherwise she'll feel like a slut. I see no harm in asking her when she's free and then working out a common night you'll be free and then just making a plan together. Should take 5 messages each max. This is how normal people make plans.

No one I know does texting only for logistics. The non RP guys I know that get laid fairly often do some texting with the girls they're fucking in between sessions and they're still getting laid. Don't get me wrong I've had great success with this strategy, but only with lower SMV women.

What I'm proposing is gradually shifting to a texting only for logistics dynamic from a "how normal people make plans" dynamic, correlating with her increasing interest in you.

Thoughts? Agree/disagree? My logic sound here?