I got a kinda follow up question here.

I was trying to meet up with the girl from my last post (https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3gbz40/how_do_i_relax_during_the_first_sexual_encounter/ just for background) and she was being undecisive / flaky. I did expect this, but yesterday night (one of the dates I proposed) she sent me a message: "I am at soandso bar, just to let you know, so it doesnt get weird if we run into each other."

So, right now I am thinking of two possibilities. First one is just ignoring the text, which seems reasonable. Second would be texting her "who is this?", hoping to get her hamster spinning or at least pissing her off. Thoughts?