Abundance is often mentioned as a key factor to getting where you want with girls. I've previously had a "plate", singular, but never been in a situation where i have several. Right now i have a girl i've been sleeping with for several months. She has showed signs of wanting more than just hookups, but i've tried to make it somewhat clear that i don't want that. Another girl i've slept with before is now recently single and she has already twice given me solid hints at wanting to hookup. A few days ago i also went on a date with a girl from tinder and i've planned to meet her again. And i ALSO have another girl that i've met a few times.

All of this i see as good progress into being more abundant, but at the same time i honestly get a bit stressed out from it, because i worry about consequences if the girl(s) finds out. If i lived in fucking New York or something i wouldn't be bothered, but i live in a small EU town with like 10k people, so the chances of bumping into the same people are pretty big. What's the best way to behave in this situation? Should i try to be as open as possible with the girls, or try to play the "hiding game" as much as i can?