I read somewhere that "the talk" should only happen when the girl initiates the question straight up to understand where that relationship is going. Is it true? How beta does it look if i bring up this conversation? I feel like if i don't bring it up, she is going to be crazy and i don't want to stick anything in crazies. In other words, how do i phrase this talk while asserting dominance? I do want to keep her around as she is my main plate.