I usually game excessive on tinder and shoot insane shots bc it’s tinder and I don’t care, it’s gotten me laid in Cali, hookups back home, but when I actually match with someone who I actually would see myself dating I get all introverted and protective not trying to fuck things up. The worst transition is from tinder banter to when they add me on snap, usually I can vibe with them first and see if they are worth my time, but this week this girl asked for my snap before I even got 4 messages deep in tinder so then I felt like a sitting duck bc my snapchat game is weak unless I catch your vibe and know what they like. I guess it’s like I don’t know what mask to where with this girl on the first impression and I think she’s flaking on the “date” I asked her on Sunday over snap Tl;dr Stressing over tinder thotties bc i’m 19 and started to catch oneitis immediately